martyklein.com1997-2025 (071 - 716)

1997
15.03 - This Talkshow Thing
15.05 - The Meaning of Sex
15.06 - Harassment or Bullying? Apparently, It Depends on the Target's Gender
15.08 - Silicon Valley Sex Therapy
15.09 - Women's Internalized Oppression: Undermining Your Own Sexuality
1998
05.03 - "Sex and Addiction" Is NOT A Useful Diagnostic — and Why It Matters
1999
05.01 - Store-Bought Erections
17.03 - Are You Sexually Normal?
19.03 - Censorship and the Fear of Sexuality
01.07 - Shall We Cover Miss Liberty's Eyes With A G-String?
01.08 - Are You Sexually Normal —and Does That Matter?
2000
09.02 - Notes on Erotic Role-Playing
22.03 - Your Conditions for Enjoyable Sex
2001
04.02 - Censoring the Internet Won't Protect Kids
2002
10.05 - To Anti-Sexuals, We're ALL Gay
2003
15.03 - What Oprah & Dr Phil Don't Understand About Sex
2004
20.04 - Kinsey the Film Kinsey the Man: Just Another Target of Juicy Media Conflict
2005
08.05 - People who feel victimized by porn: Let's give them sympathy, not a Congressional hearing
2006
2007
02.02 - Seminar: Santa Clara, CA
19.02 - "Pfizer Made Me Do It"
27.02 - Airport Scanner Discovers Familiar Truth
01.03 - Porn? "That's Just Like A Man"
04.03 - Fight the Anti-sex Religious Right, Not Capitalism
06.03 - Challenging the Faith-Based Payoff
10.03 - Newt: Hypocrite, or Opportunistic Hypocrite?
10.03 - Sex Offenders? Torture & Hanging Are Next
17.03 - Gay Or Irish? Parade Organizers Force Choice
22.03 - "Daddy, What's That?"
27.03 - City Can't Handle a Little Sex-Change Operation
07.04 - South Carolina Dishonors the God of Mercy
12.04 - Ohio Proves It Cares About the Young
15.04 - As Our Orange Tree Sigh After Sex Again
26.04 - Virginia Protect People From Themselves, Not From Gunmen
30.04 - Sexual Hypocrisy —When the Personal is Political
12.05 - Ancient Greeks, Modern Romans
16.05 - A Hate-Filled Man Dies
01.06 - "Morality in Media" Gets Airsick
02.06 - "F-Word" Indecency
15.06 - Teens As A Sexually-Repressed Minority
18.06 - Obituary: Stan dale, Sexual Pioneer
21.06 - "Knocked Up?" No Thanks
25.06 - Fox & CBS Think Condoms Are About Death Not Pleasure
01.07 - California Senate Actually Protects Our Sexuality —Twice
05.07 - "America's War On Sex" Wins Award
06.07 - Mitt Romney Tries Sex Both Ways, and Loses
08.07 - Happy Birthday, Meese Commission
14.07 - Ex-Surgeon General Should Apologize, Not Complain
17.07 - Vitter's Political Hypocrisy Far Worse Than A "Sin"
20.07 - O'Reilly Freaks Out Over "Uterus"
22.07 - Frank Rich: President's "War Against Sex"
24.07 - Church Offers Everyone (Mostly Useless) Marriage Advice
30.07 - Adults Continue Criminalizing Childhood
01.08 - Senator Stevens Doesn't Know %&@# About Morality
03.08 - I ♥ First Amendment Lawyers
05.08 - No Sex, Please We're -Um, Liberal Bloggers
09.08 - Abortion Is Not A "Woman's Issue"
12.08 - "So Help You God?"
14.08 - Caution: Karl Rove Was Hazardous To Your Sex Life
16.08 - "Morality" Juveniles Quiver Over Exposed Breasts
18.08 - Ode to Skimpy Summer Clothes
19.08 - Americans Search for a Sexual Center
21.08 - Sexuality —Missing in Action At the Iowa Caucauses
23.08 - Singer Stefani Censored in [Where?]
27.08 - When language Is More Important Than War
28.08 - Senatorial Bathroom Blowjob Bust
01.09 - Religious Freedom: More Important Than Sexual Freedom?
03.09 - Sexual Interest in Men Does NOT Make Larry Craig Gay
04.09 - Seminar & Case Conflict: Los Angeles
06.09 - Dear Larry Craig: Now You Know...
07.09 - Is A Good Mortgage Like Geriatric Sex?
09.09 - Memo to Southwest Air: Women's Bodies Are OK
11.09 - The Real Loss of September 12
20.09 - Limiting Marriage to Pregnant Brides & Shotgun Weddings
21.09 - Is "cum" Vulgar? (Is Lenny Bruce Still Dead?)
22.09 - "Garden-Variety Porn?"
25.09 - If I Say "Blowjob," Will I See Dental Floss?
01.10 - Growing Beyond Being Sexually "Normal"
05.10 - Supreme Court Sez: Alabama Can Silence The Buzz of Vibrators
07.10 - Women Who Diss Women Who Wax
11.10 - Time To Come Out, Gay OR Straight
17.10 - Cheerio From London and Charles Dickens
26.10 - Generlow Wilson Freed: Time to Decriminalize Teen Sexuality
08.11 - Parents, Porn Isn't the Problem
09.11 - Does "Sex Addiction" Exist? Does It Matter What You Call It?
11.11 - Ending the Scourge of Strip Clubs
16.11 - Rocky Raccoon and Gideon's Bible
19.11 - Uncle Sam Wants You— to Marry
23.11 - Lick A Dog's Butt, Go To Jail
29.11 - My Work In Delhi
03.12 - India's Ancient Erotic Sculpture
11.12 - Male & Female In India
18.12 - Quoted & Reviewed!
21.12 - What I DON'T Want for the Holidays
22.12 - What I Want for the Holidays
26.12 - Texas Taxes Tassled Titties
31.12 - Memo to America: PLEASE Learn to Ignore Sex!
2008
03.01 - New Hampshre Adds Civil Unions; Predictable Chaos Follows
11.01 - Catholic Hospitals Should Stop Playing God
14.01 - "Morality in Media" Trashes Their Hotel Room
20.01 - My Space+Phony Categories = Fearmongering
22.01 - Stoppard's "Rock 'N' Roll" & The Politics of Sex
25.01 - Sex On My Birthday
27.01 - Obsessed With Asses, FCC Screws America
03.02 - American Family Association Mistrusts the Truth
06.02 - Sexual Intelligence Awards™ —Please Nominate!
08.02 - Cops and Morality Police —World's Best PR Agents
14.02 - College Students and Anal Sex
25.02 - Notes from ISSWSH, and America's Fear of Pleasure
08.03 - Sexual Intelligence Awards, 2008
10.03 - Stealing Rights From the Federal Government
15.03 - 20/20, Age of Consent —and Me
18.03 - New New York Governor & Wife: 'We Had Affairs' (Yawn Yay!)
24.03 - It's Women's History Month —But Which Women?
31.03 - Minnesota Justice Paralyzed by Facial
09.04 - Protecting Our Sexuality, One Bad Law At A Time
18.04 - Dear Pope: Support Life, Support Masturbation
26.04 - Pharaoh Lives —In The Hearts of dJews
01.05 - London Fears Pics of Really Big Ben
15.05 - Anti-Gay-Marriage Activists —I Feel Your Pain
15.05 - Memo to Indiana: Porn-Shakespeare= Free Speech
23.05 - Time for Non-Gays to Come Out of the Closet
26.05 - What Did They Fight & Die For?
01.06 - Returning the TV Clicker to Parents
15.06 - A Judge's Porn: America's Latest Obsession
18.06 - Porn, Penn & Teller —and Me
23.06 - George Carlin's 7 Words The Government Couldn't Handle
30.06 - Our Government: Powerless to Outlaw Guns, Able to Outlaw Movies
01.07 - South Dakota Requires Doctors to Lie About Abortion
07.07 - I'm All Over The new Media
08.07 - "Bo Diddley Put the Rock in Rock & Roll"
14.07 - McCain: 'Birth Control? Viagra? Uh, I Was Absent That Day
19.07 - Family Research Council Caught Lying About Sexual Doomsday On Camera
28.07 - Who Can Discuss Sex Without Discussing Damage?
31.07 - Beyond Orgasm
03.08 - Senator Ted Stevens: 'Morality is About Sex, Not About Lying or Cheating'
09.08 - I Don't Care Who He Slept With; Why Does Anyone?
17.08 - Ernest Borgnine: 91 an Still Jackin'
02.09 - My Topless Italian Friend  —America's Enemy
04.09 - A Thank-You and Some Questions For Governor Palin
16.09 - Sara Palin Is Not A "Woman"
23.09 - Gay High School: Bad for Gays AND Straights
28.09 - Sex +Sheep=prison  —Lots of Prison
01.10 - Is Porn to Blame for the Economic Collapse?
03.10 - Yet Another Sneaky Law designed to Discourage Abortion
26.10 - "Porn on planes"  — Another urban legend fans hysteria
28.10 - Anti-Sex "Morality Leader Ted Stevens Convicted of Lying, Cheatng, Stealing
03.11 - Exploiting Sex Offenders to Ruin Childhood, Part 26: Halloween
03.11 - The War On Sex: Damaging Nebraska Day By Day
05.11 - Dear President-Elect Obama: A Sexual Rights Agenda, Please
09.11 - Good News About Choice
14.11 - The Worst Predator of All: The Ever-Growing Fear of Predator
24.11 - Bush's Parting Shot  —Aimed At Your Sexual Health
26.11 - Sweden Gets It Right: No Need to Make Sex a Sickness
28.11 - Taking Unauthorized (Yawn) Photos Under Your Shirt
01.12 - Seven Consecutive Days of Sex? Surely, God's Ambivalent
05.12 - Girl Arrested For Assault With Deadly Breasts
09.12 - Eleven Things About Sex I Wish Lawyers an Judges Knew
11.12 - Good News Out of New Hampshire
13.12 - Cop Show Cites Sexual Science  —Accurately!
15.12 - The Real Christmas — Bill of Rights Day
27.12 - Pope: Homosexuality As Environmental Disaster
29.12 - The "Moral Majority" Still Doesn't Exist
2009
02.01 - Facebook Bullies Ban Bread-feeding. Breast-feeders Blameless?
06.01 - Flying The Erotophobic Skies of the U.S.
08.01 - The Problem With Rev. Rick Warren It Isn't the Rick, It's the Rev.
17.01 - 10 Facts of Life for the New Surgeon General
27.01 - Great News for Parents: Internet MUCH Safer Than You Thought
31.01 - Female Sexuality, Feminists, & the Superbowl
09.02 - "Decency" Group Calls Me Out in Cincinnati
15.02 - Valentine's Day And Lousy Sex
16.02 - Sex and Intelligence Roundup
23.02 - Kansas Library: Books Are "Harmful" for Kids
27.02 - Britol Palin's Wisdom: Better Than Science?
02.03 - 2009 Sexual Intelligence Awards® Announcement
09.03 - "sexting" Can't —Repeat Can't— Kill Anyone
20.03 - Pure Romance, 1000 Women —And Me
30.03 - Condoms: Modern Miracle or Dirty Little Secret?
02.04 - Massachusetts Revokes Consent of Adults Over 60
05.04 - Belgium Declares Pope Public Enemy
06.04 - Forget the Constitution — Young People Are Thinking About Sex
12.04 - The Onion® Reveals: Porn Misleads Kids
13.04 - New Airport X-Ray Too Friendly For The Friendly Skies?
19.04 - When Prostitution is a Positive Sign
20.04 - Male Sexuality: Selfishness or Insecurity?
26.04 - My next Seminary for Therapists: 1) Infidelity, 2) Intakes & First Sessions
26.04 - Seven Minutes on TV, Discussing Sex in a Different Way
01.05 - Florida Now safe For Goats & Jesus
07.05 - Supreme Court Obsessed With Sex; Healthy Americans Lose Rights
18.05 - One Pervert Does Not Equal "Danger"
21.05 - Abortion: "Morally Equivalent" Doesn't Mean "Politically Equivalent"
25.05 - Is THAT What They Fought & Died For?
28.05 - When Comics Are Outlawed, Exactly Who Is Safer?
01.06 - Anti-Choice Movement Is Responsible For Tiller's Murder
08.06 - David Carradine Comes — And Goes; Media Love it
11.06 - Oprah: Anti-Vagina, Anti-Sex
14.06 - HIV Hypocrisy: Activists Join Government to Denounce Porn
26.06 - Governor Sanford, Senator Ensign - Their Hypocrisy, Or Ours?
03.07 - July 4 And Your Sexual Freedom
19.07 - Can A Book Be Burned At The Stake — Literally?
26.07 - Anti-Porn Leaders Lie to U.S. Attorney General
30.07 - Alabama: 19th Century Too Risque
28.08 - When "Self-Help" is Part of the Problem
02.09 - Ice Cream and Civil Right
07.09 - Indianapolis: Constitutionally, Three Strikes and They're Out
15.09 - What Do We Actually Know About Sex?
24.09 - When Adults Fail Children For Life
28.09 - Training Professionals Here In Azerbaijan
02.10 - A Visit to the Middle Ages, Central Asia-Style
10.10 - Family Foundation of Kentucky Calls Me Out
15.10 - Alaska Wants to Outlaw Disgusting Imagination
22.10 - A Couple Quits Therapy; What Is "Normal" Desire?
25.10 - 10 ways to Observe Pornography Awareness Week
31.10 - Scariest Halloween Goblin: Jillions of Sex Offenders
07.11 - Protecting Kids On-Line: A Growth Industry
17.11 - My New Digital Camera: Sexting in Middle Ages
20.11 - Gay Priests? No, Confused Priests
27.11 - Giving Thanks For Sex
30.11 - End Rape & Incest Exceptions to Stupak Abortion Ban
03.12 - Tiger's Sex 'Scandal' is About ...Sex
11.12 - International Human Rights Day MUST Include Sexual Rights
14.12 - Florida Criminalizes Arts & Crafts
18.12 - Fantasy On Trial (Again)
22.10 - Mexico City Invites Us: Obscene Our "Experiment"
28.12 - Emergency Contraception  —Good Preparation for New Year's Eve
2010
04.01 - More From Vietnam —Why Is Everyone In Saigon So Young?
08.01 - Teaching Counseling Skills in Hanoi
10.01 - On Vietnamese TV
10.01 - Hanoi City of the Future
12.01 - Hue — the Imperial City
14.01 - South From Hue — To A Buddhist Military Funeral
18.01 - Life on the Mekong Delta
18.01 - Seeing the Story of Rice —From Farm to Philippines
24.01 - Airline, Cruise Line Reveal Obsession, Prejudice About Sex
29.01 - How Will Anti-Choice Forces Alone For George Tiller's Murder?
01.02 - Supreme Court: Free Expression Crucial —Unless It's About Sex
05.02 - Speaking As Janet Jackson's Nipple...
11.02 - Freeing Ourselves From Valentine's Day
15.02 - Those Beautiful Olympic Bodies
19.02 - Another obscenity trial tarnishes America
20.02 - Our Addiction to Tiger Woods' "Sex Addiction"
06.03 - Sexual Intelligence Awards 2010
13.03 - Singing, Dancing—and Eroticism, Around the World
22.03 - Court Finally Limits Persecution of Teen Sexuality
29.03 - Can Atheists Have a Code of Sexual Morality?
01.04 - An Epidemic of Sex Addiction?
04.04 - When Music Turned to Sex —And Changed the World
20.04 - Think Internet Censorship; Can't Happen Here?
04.05 - Talking About Sex in Austria
06.05 - Judge Dislikes T-Shirt, Jails Woman —and Media Play Coy
29.05 - Talking At Lovers
01.06 - Teacher Busted For Teaching Sex Finally Cleared
04.06 - Destroying America to Save It
27.06 - Flibansevin Defeated; What Is Accomplished?
01.07 - Innovative Pharmaceutical Abortion in Iowa —And Hypocritics
27.06 - Ukraine, Darwin, & Miniskirts
19.08 - Making "Men" and "Women" One-Dimensional
30.08 - "Catching" Your Ki Playing Doctor
06.09 - Craigslist, Sex Trafficking, & The Next Moral Panic
01.10 - Is There Such A Thing As Kinky Sex?
05.10 - IVF, The Nobel prize, & Sexuality
07.10 - Judge Criminalizes Strip Club, Patronizes Stripper
29.10 - Abortion & Birth Control: How Humans Actually Behave
07.11 - Science Shows What Sexual Repression Actually Looks Like
08.11 - Can Pam Anderson Make Fur Non-Kosher?
14.11 - (not funny) Movie review: A Dirty Shame
27.11 - Giving Thanks For Sex... With a Bit of Melancholy
06.12 - "Feminism" In Iceland: Saving Women From Their Own Adulthood
19.12 - "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Soon To Be History
25.12 - Religion & Sexuality: Iron Age or Dark Ages?
2011
02.01 - States Use "Sex" & "Children" To Create & Damn Criminals
06.01 - Map of Non-Monogamy Makes It Cleaver
06.01 - Training Without Travel with Dr. Ellyn Radar
30.01 - Pathetic Political Posturing: Attracting MTV's "Skins" As Child Porn
04.02 - The Myth of "Racist Pornography"
08.02 - America's War On Sex: Second Edition?
14.02 - The Couple Who Don't Celebrate Valentine's Day
18.02 - What Kind of a Sick Mind Calls This Child Porn?
04.03 - 11th Annual Sexual Intelligence Awards
28.03 - Sex Ed & China: Ambivalent to the Core
05.04 - Arizona Outlaws Non-Existed Abortion
09.04 - Is It Sex?
10.04 - Mona Lisa Censored From TV?
03.05 - Those Wonderful Librarians
06.05 - Porn Addict or Selfish Bastard? Life Is More Complicated Than That
06.05 - Sex Is Evil: Film at 11
13.05 - Committed to excellence becomes Commitment to Ignorance
22.05 -Trusting Article To Tell The Truth
28.05 - Criminalizing Circumcision: Self-Hatred As Public Policy
02.06 - What Sexual Conditions DON'T Need Treatment
10.06 - Anthony Weiner's 'Bad Judgement:' That is So Not the Point
24.06 - Everything is Now "Potential" Child Porn
01.07 - How To NOT Get An Erection
03.07 - Film Review: Fellini's "Amacord" ("I Remember," 1973)
11.07 - GOP Nominees Asked to Pledge Marital Fidelity... And More
13.07 - Is Michelle Bachman Obsessed With Sex? It Depends On The Day
24.07 - Dishonest, Damaging, Disgusting: Newsweek Calls YOU "The John Next Door"
02.08 - Is this one of your favorite sexuality blogs?
04.08 - National Security? Protecting Kids? Porn Takes the Rap Again
21.08 - New York City Make the Moral Choice: School Sex Ed
29.08 - Deep In the Valley: Going to a Porn Shoot
04.09 - Morality in Media Admits They Lack Facts, So They Lie About Porn
27.09 - World Contraceptive Day Comes and Goes
05.10 - When a Chicken is Too Sexy; We're really in Trouble
07.10 - Abstinence Sex Ed? "I'm Baack..."
02.11 - Fourteen ways to Observe Pornography Awareness Week
09.11 - Mississippi Personhood Amendment Fails
10.11 - The Pleasure of Sexual Science
16.11 - Yale Bans "Sex Week"
24.11- Giving Thanks: Teen  Pregnancy, Sex Abuse, Rape All Decline
04.12 - A Word About Brazilian Women
09.12 - The Morning After: Screwed By Obama
24.12 - Your Kid Looks At Porn. Now What?
30.12 - Top Moments of Sexual Intelligence, 2011
2012
04.01 - Book Review: Vulva 101
16.01 - Should Prison Inmates Have the Right to Masturbate?
30.01 - Superbowl Sex Trafficking Increase? Super Nonsense
02.02 - Breast Cancer Advocates Threw Planned Parenthood Under Bus
10.02 - Sexual Intelligence — My New Book is Published Today!
07.03 - Sexual Intelligence Awards 2012
12.03 - It's Not A War On Women — It's A War On Sex
30.03 - Imagine Sex Is Just Sex
04.04 - Youth, Technology, & Sexuality
13.04 - Stanford Law School and Sex
24.04 - Why Janet Jackson's Nipple Won't Go Away
01.05 - America's War On Sex, Take 2
23.05 - Same-sex marriage, health care reform, & contraception
30.05 - Sexual Myths: Ammunition in the War On Science
09.06 - Sex, Public Policy and Humanism
12.06 - Sexual Harassment or Unwanted Sexual Attention?
23.06 - Court Slaps FCC, Ducks Free Speech Issue
08.07 - This Couple Contacted Me From South America...
05.07 - Celebrating— and Limiting— Religious "Freedom"
23.07 - Are You Fred Willard?
27.07 - Should We Discriminate Against Chick-Fil-A?
06.08 - 32 Helpful Things You Can Learn From Porn
17.08 - Parents Television Council REALLY Loves the Sin
01.09 - Would America Benefit From Some of Poland's Oppression?
08.09 - Republicans, Democrats: Here's A Sexual Health Platform
24.09 - Mississippi: Baby Steps to Reduce Teen Pregnancy
04.10 - Criminalizing Convention "Therapy": Good Intention, Bad Idea
06.10 - Communicating About Sex: 10 Commandments, Twice
21.10 - Sex in Australia
31.10 - Pity The Virgin: Wedding Night Blues
05.11 - Study Confirms:IVF Does Drive People Crazy
10.11 - General Petraeus Resigns, Casualty of War on Sex
20.11 - Sex in Hong Kong
01.12 - Porn Industry Fights For Your Rights
03.12 - Philip Roth Retires, Undefeated
24.12 - Mormons Declare: Gays Almost Human
29.12 - "American Ecstacy": A Unique Guidebook Through Porn Land
2013
04.01 - Sexual Highs & Lows of 2012
16.01 - memo to Docs (and Patients: Less Viagra, Please
28.01 - Matei Te'o: A Lover For Our Time
03.02 - Birth Control & Obamacare: Religion Escalates Its War On Sex
08.03 - 13th Annual Sexual Intelligence Awards®
17.03 - Poor reason to support gay rights: "My son is gay"
23.03 - Ιs There Such A Thing As Gay (or Straight) Porn?
31.03 - The End of Normal Sex
12.04 - How Does Your Body Know What Feels "Sexy"?
26.04 - George Bush: The Man Who Tried to Ruin Sex
30.04 - NBA Player Jason Collins Comes Out As Gay
03.06 - Ten Things Humanists Need to Know About Sex
05.06 - Dan Savage: Humanist of the Year
21.06 - Gardasil For Teens: Less Cancer vs. Parental Emotion
01.07 - FAQ For Churches In The Era of Gay Marriage
03.07 - Book Review: Naked Truth by Judith Hanna
18.07 - Sex: Skeptics Say "Who's In Charge here, Anyway?"
26.07 - Young People Diss first Amendment: Porn Arrests Continue
30.07 - Virginia Attorney General wants to Criminalize Oral Sex
03.09 - Germany, Croatia, America, and Sexual Rights
06.09 - Time To Talk to Your Kids About Porn
16.09 - How Kinsey Changed Our Lives
01.10 - After the Affair... What?
04.10 - The New Sex Rules
21.10 - Talking sex ed & porn with Congress & the APA
29.10 - Are These Symptoms of Sex Addiction? No
02.11 - If it Isn't Sex Addiction, How Do You Treat It? (Part 2)
12.11 - SexToy Nation Meets the NY Times
24.11 - Choose your sexual story carefully
26.11 - Giving Thanks for Sex; However...
21.12 - Holiday Gifts for Imperfect Sex Lives
30.12 - British Re-Invent The Wheel —and Fail
2014
02.01 - The Year In Sex  —Continuing in 2014
14.01 - Golden Globes' gowns a good reason to watch
28.01 - Sex & Fertility Are Not a Miracle  —Just Life
01.02 - Superbowl A Magnet for Sex Trafficking? Super Nonsense
10.02 - Sex Abuse: Truth, Lying, or False memory?
28.02 - Better Sex: Tight Hand or Loose Vagina?
02.03 - Seven Good Reasons People Don't Initiate Sex
10.03 - Talking Mary Out of a Boob Job
17.03 - Finally: Normal Sex Revealed
24.03 - The Myths of Porn's Perfect Bodies
25.03 - The Myths of Porn's Perfect Bodies
30.03 - Hobby Lobby's Dangerous Quest
13.04 - Does Pornography Cause Rape?
20.04 - Camille Paglia: Wrong About Sex Ed
01.05 - National Day of Prayer: Unconstitutional & Anti-Sex
10.05 - Training Women to Have No Eyes
22.05 - African-American Pastors Call for Dicrimination
01.06 - Sex Offender Board Tries to Protect California; California Refuses
26.06 - Reasons People Have Affairs  —Besides Sex
29.06 - Gay Pride  —A Reminder
02.07 - Hobby Lobby Decision Rule Government in the Religion Business
22.07 - Open Letter To College Bound Kids About Sex
29.07 - Beware Popular Lie About Sex
03.08 - Creating a Generation of Young Porn Criminals
25.08 - Ten Problems With Purity Balls
31.08 - When Sex Isn't About Sex
04.09 - World Sexual Health Day 2014
25.09 - Attacking Sex Trafficking by... Attacking Who?
28.09 - Banned Books Weekends, But Censoring Doesn't
29.09 - Banned Books Weekends, But Censoring Doesn't
01.10 - www.MyBeautifulSexLife.com
06.10 - New Law Undermines Therapy (177)
30.10 - What Italians want to Know About Sex
03.11 - Bad Categories Prevent Smart Conversations (177)
11.11 - Want to wtch a lot of porn AND have good sex?
26.11 - The Sexism Behind the Anti-Escort Movement (178)}
04.12 - UK Censors Domestic Porn; No Pattern To What's Banned
05.12 - UK Censors Domestic Porn; No Pattern To What's Banned
09.12 - Aphrodisiac? For What?
29.12 - Is Everyone on Match.com looking for a match?
2015
08.01 - Je Suis Charlie
19.01 - Some gays slow to catch on to religious excepionalism
27.01 - Speech Cods, PC Politics: When America is NOT "Charlie"
23.02 - What Part of "Fantasy" Don't They Understand?
27.02 - Ten Erection Disappointments That Are NOT "ED"
09.03 - Teaching Sexuality in Hong Kong
27.03 - Another Guy Who Isn't a Sex Addict
30.03 - Indiana: Where Freedom Requires Discrimination
27.04 - Science & Sex  —Why Are They Now Strangers?
30.04 - Why Is Common Sense "Blaming the Victim"?
03.05 - What's "Natural"About Sex?
30.05 - "Pink Viagra" —Not Pink, And Not Viagra
03.06 - Why Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner Matters to Straight People
19.06 - Good News About (Some) Sexual Rights
21.06 - What Dads Can Give on Father's Day
26.06 - Is Lousy Sex Beer Than No Sex?
12.07 - Nine Absolutely Untrue Myths About Porn  —And One Fact We Can All Agree On
30.07 - What I Know About Your (Hetero) Man's Sexuality
31.07 - What I Know About Your (Hetero) Man's Sexuality
03.08 - Fetal Issue Research Benefits Everyone, Even Hypocrites
23.08 - Limiting Abortion to Healthy Fetuses?
30.08 - Ashley Madison: Playing Around or Just Playing?
02.09 - Has the Internet Rely Changed Anything About Sexuality?
18.09 - Naked in Tokyo
26.09 - The Dirty Little Sex Secret of Therapy
03.10 - Why does anyone look at porn?
20.10 - Latest Challenge for Parents: TV Ads About ED
26.11 - (Not-So) Random Thoughts About Sex
28.11 - 5 Ways to Make Sex Less Enjoyable
28.11 - No Mabel. You Don' Have to Compete etc With Porn Actresses
07.12 - James Deen, Sex Worker, & Rape
24.12 - Norway, Immigrants, and Sex Education (191
30.12 - 2015: The Year In Sex
2016
25.01 - Sexually, Is Pleasure What Motivates You?
01.02 - Not Just Another Vegas Convention
02.02 - Superbowl = Ground Zero for Sex Trafficking?
23.02 - Rule 34: What It Says About Your Sexuality
29.02 - Sex is Constructed —By You
03.03 - Oral Sex: You Said A Mouthful
24.03 - Does Porn Demean Women?
28.03 - Open? Poly? How to NOT Cheat
31.03 - "Politics? I'm Interested In Sex, Not Politics"
24.04 - More Sexual Curiosity, Please
29.04 - Michelle, Her Breasts, & the Male Gaze
03.05 - The Need For the Sexual "Other"
18.05 - Candye Kane Obituary: Blues+Sex=Red-Hot Mama
21.05 - The Cuckold-Watching His Wife With Other Guys
02.06 - Sexual Policy Questions for Candidates
19.06 - National Men's Health Week
24.06 - Premature Ejaculation — All About Time?
04.07 - Indiana Can't Make Abortion a Thought Crime
12.07 - Republicans: Porn a "Public Health Crisis"
27.07 - Sex, Secrets, & Shame
31.07 - More Religious Bullying—Around Sex Of Course
19.08 - Sexually, Are We Becoming Wilder or More Conservative?
31.08 - My Crippling Loss of Confidence—and Our Fragile Sexuality
05.09 - Pam Anderson & Shmuley Boteach: "Porn is For Losers"
23.09 - Men Who Have Sex With Men: They're Not All Gay
26.09 - "Foreplay" —It just Makes Us Nervous About Sex
02.10 - Salon.com Asks me About Porn
13.10 - Trump Gives Lust A Bad Name
21.10 - What College Kids want to Know About Porn
01.11 - Halloween: Holiday for Fear of Sex Offenders
13.12 - What I Want For The Holidays
24.12 - Vanilla Sex — Our Best Friend
26.12 - Holiday Gifts To My Patients
2017
20.01 - Mr. Trump: Here's What You Need to Know About Sex
30.01 - Supporting Healthy Teen & Childhood Sexuality
04.02 - Test-Driving Viagra (And Other Things) First
13.02 - What You Don't Need on Valentine's Day
23.02 - Sexual Intelligence
01.03 - Anal Toy Freakout
03.03 - Court Legalizes Women's Breasts}
31.03 - Therapy's Shocking Secret: What Therapists-in-Training Don't Learn About Sex
01.04 - NCMEC Hypocrisy on "Stranger Danger"
04.04 - What Porn Leaves Out
23.04 - How Arizona Made Changing Diapers Illegal
28.04 - When Should Parents Talk To Kids About Porn?
29.04 - England Supports Parents as Sex Educators
25.05 - Have Orgasms, Don't Have Orgasms—Just Don't COUNT
29.05 - Is Every Unwanted Blowjob Rape?
03.06 - Myths About Sex Therapy—Don't Let Them Stop You!
29.06 - Kinsey: Still Telling the Truth After All These Years
03.07 - Tantra, Squirting, BDSM—Not For My Patients, Thanks
04.07 - Independence Day and Sexual Freedom
11.07 - Husbands Watch Porn, Wives Despair—But Why?
25.07 - Nine Things I Wish Everyone Knew About Sex
31.07 - When a Man Should Say No to Sex
25.08 - Sex and Pain
29.08 - The Sex Lives of Engineers (and Other Humans)
01.09 - Why Is Alcohol The Number 1 Sex Drug? And Does It Matter?
27.09 - Is Fear of Social Media Rage Censoring Your Sexuality?
29.09 - Hugh Hefner: Sexual and Social Pioneer
02.10 - Sex and Death —What Do They Mean?
20.10 - Popular Sex Tools You Probably Don't Need
02.11 - Another WRAP Week of Porn Disinformation
21.11 - Roy Moore is NOT a Pedophile. He's a Traitor
27.11 - "Is that infidelity?" Why that's the wrong question
01.12 - Moral Outrage Is a Poor Substitute for Debate
12.12 - Birth Control —Orphan Child of Sex?
16.12 - Underpants In a Painting - Always About Sex?
29.12 - The Four Challenges Couples Face in 2018
2018
12,01 - How the "Porn Addiction" Movement Disrespects Women
31.01 - Indifelity, Affairs, and Broken Hearts
03.02 - Janet Jackson's Nipple Returns
24.02 - Cool Bedroom Tricks? Not Necessary For Better Sex
05.03 - "Just like a man"? "Just like a woman"?
01.04 - Damaging Justice to Make a Point About Rape
03.04 - Sexual Desire vs Sexual Interest
05.04 - Sex Science in the News
27.04 - How People Make Sex Too Complicated, and Harder to Enjoy
30.04 - BDSM In The Real World: Three or Four Shades of Grey?
03.05 - Blaming Porn for bad behavior —and avoiding the truth
22.05 - Is Your Therapist Sexually Literate?
25.05 - Philip Roth Dies - Survived By A Great Sexual Mirror
29.05 - Not Everything Is A #MeeToo Movement
05.06 - SCOTUS Gay Wedding Cake Decision —Victory for Free Expression
19.06 - Congress Criminalizes Sex Robots
30.06 - When Partners Disagree On How Much Sex To Have
09.07 - Steam-Cleaning Your Vagina - and Other Insults
17.07 - Trans Activists Reject Scarlett, Destroy Trans Movi
29.07 - How Much Sex Do People Need?
27.08 - Pornography: What We Can Agree On
01.09 - Now's the Best Time to Discuss Sex at a Catholic High School
03.09 - No Orgasm? Lots of Good Reasons
14.09 - Fantasy vs. Desire — You Know the Difference, Right?
28.09 - Masturbation Madness — Can it Kill You?
02.10 - Another Guy Who Isn't a Sex Addict
16.10 - Can Sex Save a Divided America?
26.10 - Shaving, Waxing or Bushy - Letting Women be Women
02.11 - Caught Cheating? 8-Ways to Make Things WORSE
13.11 - Erections, Car Wrecks, and "Manliness"
22.11 - Should Lying on Dating Apps to Get Sex Be Illegal
27.11 - What is Normal Sex?
22.12 - What is NOT a porn problem?
29.12 - Sex Resolutions for the New Year — Part I
31.12 - Sexual New Year's Resolutions, Part II
2019
21.01 - Consent is Not Enough
06.02 - Don't be Ashamed of Your Sexuality
09.02 - Valentine's Day —Pressure or Pleasure?
25.02 - Why People Find Sex Dull
01.03 - Sex in the news —Fear & Ignorance Trump Sanity
05.03 - The 7 Most Common Questions About Sex-Still
22.03 - What Women Tell Me They Hate About Porn
29.03 - Open Letter to My Doctor (And Yours)
02.04 - #Me Too Is Creating A Country of Female Victims
23.04 - If A Guy Doesn't Always Orgasm, Should You Worry?
06.05 - Romance & Spontaneity —Not Always the Best Sexual Goals
13.05 - Florida Fear Sex Dolls, Arizona Fears Porn
27.05 - I Want the Pleasure You're Having
10.06 - Alabama & Sex Offenders: Revenge, Not Child Safety
14.06 - Father's Day Gift: Sex Education Help
26.06 - Vyleesi: Poor Fix for the "Disease" of Low Sexual Drive
16.07 - Is Watching Porn A Form of Infidelity?
05.08 - You Don't need A Sexual Identity to Enjoy Sex
18.08 - Gay Republicans Endorse Trump for 2020
02.09 - Back to School —Don't Forget About Sex
06.09 - You Change. Sex Changes, Too
24.09 - A Young Man Wants a Consultation...
29.04 - Sexual Wisdom, Not Advice
02.06 - Sexual Intelligence for Entrepreneurs
27.07 - In Praise of Vanilla Sex
29.09 - Sex in Canada —Civilized
01.10 - Is There A Universal Sexual Desire?
25.10 - I'm Tired of (Some) Erections
29.10 - Halloween: Holiday for Anti-Predator Vigilantes
02.11 - WRAP Week: Their Mission is Lying About Porn
18.11 - Τraining Therapists About Intimacy
25.11 - Topless At Home? Busted
29.11 - Giving Thanks for Sex (178)
23.12 - Estrogen, Menopause, & Breast Cancer
2020
02.01 - 8 Sexual New Year's Resolutions
20.01 - Is it OK To Masturbate Without Porn?
22.01 - The Hypocrisy of Anti-Choice Activists
03.02 - Desire fr What?
14.02 - Cuddling? Snuggling? What An Opportunity!
01.03 - On Tour: Much Better Sex
04.03 - Sexual Policy Questions for Candidates
16.03 - Sex and the Coronavirus
01.04 - Coronavirus and Couples
14.04 - Linda Tripp: NOT a Whistleblower Or a Feminist
28.04 - Has Your Partner Had An Affair? Speak Cautiously
02.05 - Popular Ideas That Make Sex A Hassle
25.05 - Birth Control. Emergency Contraception, & Abortion During COVID
01.06 - What Will We Fore When COVID is Over?
01.07 - What is Kinky Sex? Does it Matter?
05.07 - Still Not Free in the U.S. - Your Sexual Fantasies
27.07 - Is AOC a "Bitch"? Beyond Sex, Words Matter
13.08 - Jerry Falwell, Jr. Gives Sex A Bad Name
26.08 - Falwell As Everyman
13.09 - Shere Hite Dies: Her Work Lives
30.09 - New York Times Asks: What Is Sex?
25.10 - Pope Francis for the Supreme Court?
30.10 - Halloween: Time to scare America About Stranger Danger
24.11 - QAron Replacing Child Protection Groups - Who Should Blame Themselves
28.11 - Giving Thanks for Sex in America
20.12 - Is Porn Your Kids' Sex Educator? Don't Blame Porn
2021
02.01 - 10 Tips for More Enjoyable Sex in 2021
25.01 - What Your Therapist Asks Me About Sex
31.01 - What People Do In Bed That Doesn't Work
22.02 - Larry Flynt: Another Pornographer Protecting YOUR Rights to Offend
28.02 - 14 Million American Identify As LGBT
21.03 - Sex Questions I Usuallly Don't Answer
01.04 - Why There's No Such Thing As Sex Addiction— and Why It Matters
19.05 - Sexual Desire: Therapy Dirty Little Secret
20.05 - You Masturbate. Do You Enjoy It?
13.06 - Are You Undermining Your Relationship With Politics?
28.06 - 8 Ways to Put Sex Therapists Out of Business
05.07 - Still Not Free in the U.S. —  Your Sexual Fantasies
25.07 - Τhe Sex Laws of the Universe
31.07 - Former Virgin, Now Angry/Sad
18.08 - Porn: FAQs You Won't See Anywhere Else
02.09 - Should Schools Be Allowed to Deceive Parents?
30.09 - Is Sex Mostly About Power Now? (261)
21.10 - RBG, Trans, & Words (262)
02.11 - "Why are we talking about this instead of sex?"
20.11 - Mistakes When Pursuing Poly & Non-Monogamy (263)
26.11 - Giving Thanks for Masturbation — And Denying No-Nut November (263)
2022
21.02 - More People Are Now Queer, Which Means... What? (265)
04.03 - How We Cause Our Own Sexual Struggles (265)
28.03 - Kentanji Brown Jackson, Child Porn, & QAnon (266)
05.04 - Ask Your Doctor! (Or Nurse or PT) (266)
25.04 - "Sex is the Peasant's Opera" (267)
01.05 - Why Are Young People Having Less Sex? (267)
25.05 - Mental Health, Masturbation, & the Church (268)
01.06 - Happy Endings in Sex Therapy (268)
01.06 - Happy Endings in Sex Therapy (269)
12.06 - Childhood Mental Health & the Church [5:18] (269)
22.06 - Bill Baird: Birth Control (& Abortion) Hero Turns 90 (269)
03.07 - Separation of Church & State is Crumbling, Taking Abortion With It (269)
18.07 - New Book Really Delivers "Sizzling Sex" (270)
30.07 - The New Sex Taboos: What We're Not Suppose To Discuss Now (270)
17.08 - Salman Rushdie and America's "Words Are Violence" Movement (271)
03.09 - Sex for the First Time in 10 Years (271)
27.09 - National Psychotherapy Day: What Shrinks Get Wrong About Sex (272)
30.09 - Another Marriage Destroyed By "Sex Addiction" Treatment (272)
30.09 - Another Marriage Destroyed By "Sex Addiction" Treatment (273)
30.10 - Cancelling Barrett Makes Us As Bad As She Is (273)
22.11 - No-Nut November is... Nuts (274)
22.11 - Sexual Diversity: Beyond Gender  — Orientation (274)
23.12 - These Doctors Are My Heroes (275)
30.12 - Making Sex Better in 2023 (275)
2023
27.01 - Two Kinds of Sex —Enjoyment and Identity (276)
01.02 - How to Keep Losing the Abortion Rights Battle (276)
20.02 - Τhe Primary Sexual Concerns of Most People (277)
01.03 - Myths About Infidelity (277)
20.03 - "ALWAYS Believe The Women"? No (278)
01.04 - Alcohol: Making Sex More Complicated (278)
10.04 - Why Is Stormy Daniels Always a 'Porn Actress?'(279)
03.05 - Back Pain, Freud, & Low Desire (279)
06.06 - Seinfeld Still Hilarious After 25 Years (280)
24.06 - Bull Durham —A Great Sex Movie Turns 35 (281)
01.07 - Sexual Freedom: I Want You to Have More (281)
24.07 - Birth Control Pill Soon OTC? Will It Matter? (282)
31.07 - NY Times Blesses Vibrators; Meta Rejects  Them (282)
14.08 - G-Spot Pioneer Alice Ladas Dies (283)
18.09 - The Pride Flag Dilemma (284)
25.09 - What Sex Therapy Can't Do (284)
27.10 - Let's Talk Vaginas (285)
30.10 - The Scariest Halloween Goblin Sex Offender (285)
21.11 - No-Nut November: No Just Nuts, It's DANGEROUS (286)
30.11 - How Men & Women Cooperate to Undermine Sex (286)
19.12 - When Sex Therapy Fails (287)
27.12 - A look back at 2023 (287)
2024
24.01 - Why Do Men Pay For Handjobs? (288)
29.01 - Porn Didn't Destroy This Marriage —Her PornPhobia Could (288)
14.02 - Valentine's Day: Not-So-Crazy Ideas for Better Sex (289)
22.02 -Do NOT Trust Activist Therapists! (289)
13.03 - Cheated On? here's  The WORST 5 Things You Can Do (290)
25.03 - "Yes, Your Kid" —and Maybe Yours? (290)
17.04 - Shame - A Bigger Problem Than Your Penis, Vagina, Fantasies, or Desire (291)
30.04 - Saying "No" Does NOT Equal "Love Desire: (291)
04.07 - It's NOT a War on Women (293)
14.07 - Arguments About Porn Aren't,About Porn (294)
01.08 - Dr. Ruth Dies (294)
26.08 - Kamala Harris is NOT a "Woman" (295)
01.09 - "Orgasm Gap"? It's Complicated (295)
26.09 - New Sex Partner? 7 Things That Often Go Wrong (296)
01.10 – Is Your Therapist Giving You Bad Sex Advice? (296)
29.10 - Halloween: Sex Offenders, Fear, & "Enemies of the People" (297)
25.11 - Giving Thanks For Sexual Options - That Many Don't Use (298)
23.12 - 10 Ways To Make Sex Better in Dark Times (299)
2025
01.01 -  Bad Sex Words (299)
26.02 - 6 Ways Social Media Undermine Sex
01.03 - Monica Lewinsky - 25 Yers Later, Still Shouting "Victim"
13.03 - What Is Trans? Why Does It Matter? (302)
31.03 - Pressuring Women For Sex - Does It Work? (302)
22.04 - Pope Francis for the Supreme Court? [Updated] (303)
29.04 - Bach, The Piano, & Elections (303)
27.05 - Am I Bisexual? Am I Asexual? Why These Are the Wrong Questions (304)
01.06 - The problem With "LOve Languages" (304)
15.06 - Father's Day Gift: Sex Ed Help (305)
04.07 - SCOTUS: Want Porn? Show Your ID (305)
25.07 - Coldplay, KissCom, & Andy Byron (306)
31.07 - National Orgasm Day (306)
25.08 - Mistakes People Make After Infidelity (307)
31.08 - Sex? Nothing Has Changed, Shows NYT (307)
19.09 - Charles Kirk, Sex & Democracy (308)
28.09 - October 2025: Want to Invrease Your (or Ther) Libido? (308)

• After COVID, What Will We Forget? issue 245, June 2020
• Aren't We All "Demisxual?" issue 247, August 2020
• I'm now doing all couples & indvidual sessions by video, issue 245, June 2020
• I'm Tired of (Some) Erections, issue 247, August 2020 [6:05]
• Open Letter to My Doc  — And Yours, issue 247, August 2020 [3:53]
• Popular Sex Stuff You Don;t Need, issue 247, August 2020 [6:55]
• Bedroom Blues, Therapist Wisdom
• Topless? Busted At-Home