Swinging, also known as the "lifestyle," is a unique and diverse subculture that has gained popularity in the modern world. It's a lifestyle choice that involves consensually and openly engaging in sexual activities with other people outside one's primary relationship. Swinging is not a new concept; it has evolved over the years, adapting to changing societal norms and values. In this chapter, we'll explore the basics of what swinging is, how it has evolved, and why it has become a prominent part of today's society.

Δυστυχώς για πρώην συνεργάτες μου που ωφελήθηκαν από εμένα και παραβρέθηκαν σε κατ' οίκον ερωτικές συναντήσεις, Δέχομαι σφοδρές αντιδράσεις για τη στήριξη που παρέχω στο κέντρο ψυχαγωγίας ενηλίκων  «EROS ckub». Ακούγονται βαριές εκφράσεις. Δεν δικαιολογείται η αιφνιδιαστική μεταστροφή τους. Όταν ηρεμήσω, θα αναφερθώ στους λόγους στήριξης του συγκεριμένου καταστήματος.

Μετά τις αμοιβαίες διευκρινίσεις που δόθηκαν αργά το βράδυ, οι τόνοι έπεσαν και η ηρεμία επανήλθε. Οι συνεργάτες που διαχώρισαν τη θέση τους στη στήριξη του νέου καταστήματος, κληθηκαν να παραστούν στην κοπή της βασιλόπιτας, την Κυριακή, 15 Φεβρουαρίου. Εκείνο που δεν γνώριζαν ήταν η μάχη που έδωσα τους τελευταίους 14 μήνες με την υγεία μου, την εκ των πραγμάτων απόσυρσή μου από τον χώρο και τη  θέλησή΄μου  να επιστρέψω σε αυτόν με κάθε τρόπο. Η κατ΄οίκον συνάντηση με τους υπεύθυνους των δημοσίων σχέσεων του «EROS CLUB» είχε καταλυτική επίδραση στην ψυχολογία μου, ιδίως μετά την επίσκεψή μου στο κατάστημα στις 8/12/2025.

Συνεχίζω, λοιπόν τη στήριξη στο νέο κατάστημα χωρίς φυσικά να συμμετέχω στη διεύθυνση με την επιβολή των απόψεών μου. Δεν επιθυμώ σύγκρουση με κανένα κατάστημα του χώρου και θεωρώ ότι οι πελάτες είναι αυτοί  που αποφασίζουν και επιλέγουν εκείνο  που τους εκφράζει καλύτερα. Διαχειρίζομαι τον ιστότοπό μου από το 2018 με συνέπεια και παρέχω υπεύθυνη ενημέρωση για τους απανταχού φίλους/οπαδούς του swinging ανά την Ελλάδα.

Kαταλήγοντας, δηλώνω κατηγορηματικά ότι δεν έχω συμμετάσχει σε οποιαδήποτε ερωτική συνάντηση επί πληρωμή όπως διαρρέεται από άγνωστους σε εμένα χρήστες. Δύο φορές το 2024 και 2025 με προσέγγισε διοργανώτρια και κυρίες των Athens Private Parties, τις οποίες δέχτηκα στην οικία μου κατόπιν σύστασης κοινού φίλου. Η συνομιλία μας ήταν ειλικρινής και εξήγησα τους λόγους άρνησής μου. Αυτά προς ενημέρωση των αναγνωστών μου.

Based on Ideas: The community's beginnings are based on the philosophical idols of Williamson and his outspoken wife, Barbara, Alabama-born John Williamson, an engineer by training, is a former project manager with Lockheed Aircraft who worked on design and management of missile support systems, including development of the Polaris missile. In the ear;y 1960s, he opened his own electronics company then sold it to buy Sandstone in 1967. Barbara Williamson, 32, is a former insurance saleswoman.

Williamson's belief is in "non-structured experiental proxesses which contribute significantly to the release and actualization of positibe human potential." Simply put, do your own thing to the fullest and enjoy the process. n addition to being an experiential community, some of the residents also say they consult with various organizations on developing a community process within businesses, reiigious organizations and at least one private psychological clinic.

Accoding to Williamson, ther outside work helps organizations look upon ther employees and management as a community, and Sandstone people are available to help them develop a community sense in their business-but without the sexual overtones. How much apllicability Sandstoe has to the outside world is debatable, but Wiliamson believes the community's message is important, serving to point up the true if unconventional nature of people. He also believes it is not for everybody.

"But," he said, "we should be able to accept a;ternativew within our social structures. Society is too complex to support only one lifestyle. Our life, the lives of all of us, are changing." Sandstone, he added, is not looking for people to live on the properry. "We're looking for people to become individuals through Sandstone," he added. "You really don't have to live here to get what you need."

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«Tυπε της Ντινας είναι οτι χειρότερο είναι, 'όλες βίζιτες εκεί μέσα, πληρώνεις 80 για να γαμήσεις, βίζιτες να ξέρεις και όταν λέω βίζιτες του 10ακου 20ακου, όχι τπτ καλό. Το καλύτερο είναι το Αthens private parties, αλλά δεν μπαίνεις εύκολα είναι πιτσιρίκια μέχρι 30 με μουνάρες και άνδρες παίδαρους γαμιάδες ίδιας ηλικίας εκεί αν μπεις είναι δύναμη αλλά θέλει 300 και αν σε βάλουν. Συν ότι τα πάρτι της ντίνας είναι παράνομα ουτε αποδείξεις κόβουν ούτε τπτ ούτε το μέρος που κλείνουν δεν ξέρουν οι ίδιοι αν επιτρέπει τα πάρτι, άμα σας μπουζουριάσουν κοίτα μην είναι Παρασκευη και βγεις Δευτέρα, ενώ στο άλλο είναι φουλ οργανωμένα νόμιμα με απόδειξη αλλά είναι ακριβό 300 και αν σε βάλουν».

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«Τύπε, αυτό που λες δεν ισχύει. Ο άνθρωπος λέει ότι θέλει να κάνει παιχνίδι η γυναίκα του με γυναίκα ή θέλει και να τους πάρουν μονο ματί. Μια χαρά κάνει το μαγαζί για αυτό το σκοπό. Ξέρω παρά πολλά ζευγάρια που πάνε και γουστάρουν να γαμιούνται μόνοι τους και καυλώνουν να τους βλέπουν, και άλλα ζευγάρια που η γυναίκα είναι bi και παίζει με άλλες γυναίκες μια χαρά. Τέλεια κάνει το μαγαζί όχι μόνο αυτό αλλα και τα άλλα μαγαζιά. Μην παραπληροφορείς. Λοιπον.

Το μόνο αρνητικό είναι ότι μερικά ζευγάρια είναι κομπλεξικά που καλά κάνουν και θέλουν να τους παίρνουν μονο ματι και να μην παίζουν με κανενα ζευγάρι/μπαλαντέρ, δικαίωμά τους. Αλλά αν πάει κάποιος μπαλαντέρ να ζητήσει παιχνίδι χωρίς να είναι μαλάκας, τον ρουφανιούν στο θέμη ότι ενοχλεί και τρώει πόρτα χωρίς να έχει γίνει μαλάκας, ενοχλητικός ή φυσικά να κανει κινηση χειρονομια. Αυτό ίσως να είναι το μόνο αρνητικό.

Και για να μην παρεξηγηθώ: αν τύχει κάποιος και ενοχλήσει ζευγάρι, μπαλαντέρ που δεν παίρνει από λόγια, έχει ύφος μαγκιά, τουπέ, γαμιάς μεγάλος, κολομπαράδες, ζόμπι και όλα τα συναφή, εκεί ναι, θέλει αναφορά και πόρτα. Η πλέμπα πρέπει να μένει έξω από όλα τα μαγαζιά τέτοιου τύπου. Αλλά όχι και όταν κάποιος είναι περιποιημένος, ζητάει ανταλλαγή, ακούει όχι, φεύγει ομορφά και ωραία, να στοχοποιείται αμέσως σαν ενοχλητικός. Αυτός το σκοπό, εξάλλου, έχουν αυτά τα μαγαζιά. Σε συνοπτική μορφή αν κάποιοι θέλουν μόνο ματιά και γουστάρουν αυτό, μια χαρά γινεται σε κάθε εκάστοτε τετοιου τυπου μαγαζί».

The possibility of rejection becomes a more potent threat at the same time. But they believe a relationship which includes others while maintaining one primary relationshp causes an incredibly strong bond to emerge. Thus, the individual's responsibility for creating a better relaionship becomes far greater at Sandstone than in most othe rsituations, they believe. It is up to each person to decide whether he desires to remain with one partner, as in marriage, or to have short term relationships. While the first reaction of a newcomer to the community is usually one of heightened sexual apptetite, it tends to diminsh and the individual becomes much more selective.

Less 'Sexual': "In addtion," said filmmaker Jonathan Dana, 26, who lives at Sandstoe with his wife Bunny, 25, :this place is much less 'sexual' than any city I've even lived in. There's no teasing, no exploitation and no frustration." While to some palates this might seem paradise, all is not easy in Utopia. One couple, residents for eight months is leaving. The feeling of community is that the husband, a mechanic, "related better to machines thna to people." The wife of one of the exectives, in addtion, after living in the community for a short time, became involved with another rman and left the community.

Ultimately, the members agree, the same emotions which exist in relations outside Sandstone exist inside Sandstone. "in practice," said Williamson, "we have all the differences that other people have, but as a community we are honest about it."

Those relationships tend to overlap and to become highly complicated. There are currently, among the permanent residents, two multiple relationships, one of a man and two women, the other of two men and one woman. In one case, one of the women is married. Her husband, wo also lives in Sandstone, approves of his wife's participation in the "ménage a-trois."

The state court's action ends a two-year fight for the community, which claims it has spent $10,000 on legal fees fighting the county ordinance. While commnity members say they have no opposition from sheriffs' officers or from neighbors (the nearest is two miles away), protests from the Topanga Chamber of Commerce and some local residents were lodged with the county Publlc Welfare Commission which denied them the county licence in 1970 on the grounds it was a "detrment to the public welfare." According to residents, none of their opponents ever visited Sandstone,

Χθες, 18 Ιανουαρίου 2026, σε συναισθηματικά φορτισμένη ατμόσφαιρα μετά την αήθη υπονόμευση που δέχθηκε από ανταγωνιστή, οι τακτικοί πελάτες και οι εργαζόμενοι στήριξαν ολοψυχα με την ανώτερη δυνατή βαθμολογία 5 (πέντε) το μαγαζί. Αν και το πρόγραμμα τελείωνε στις 01.00, η κοπή της βασιλόπιτας για το προσωπικό ολοκληρώθηκε στις 02.30! Το φλουρί βρέθηκε μετάξυ του κομματιού του   ιδιοκτήτη και του μαγαζιού. 
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Sandstone's founder, 39-year-old John Williamson, is soft-spoken, a slightly balding rough-hewn man with a reserved, alsmost courtly manner. He discusses Sandstone's lifestyle and objections which, he said, includes research into living pluralistic (two, three or more people) relationships. "We believe in the sexual self as being at the core of organized social behavioir," he said. "When sexuality s distorted, it leads to a distance the basic self.

Bu Sandstone's mores, an individuals may do what he desires providing the others, singly or together, are willing to go along, as a result, in one room of their retreat, people may be talking, playing chess or engaging in sexual intercourse without any disemination as to what is "proper"

Sandstone's financial life-blood comes from its club members who pay $240 a year membership, allowing them to use the facilities whenever they desire.

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Wednesdays and Saturdays, are party nights. Couples only come to the retreat in the daytime to sun, nude if desired, swim in the covered pool, read, play chess, relax. At night, the downstairs is slowly lighted. Softly swinging rock music plays. Couples are sitting and talking or sexually engaged, not necessarily with the partner they came with.

Some couples remain clothed. Most do not. It is neither obliging to remove one's clothing or engage in any of the activities. On a full night, there are as many as 80 adult visitors to the ranch, of all races, ages and backgrounds, both married and unmarried.

Old timers Relaxed: While newcomers may be awed by the open sexuality, most old timers are more relaxed by the atmosphere and say they thrive in an environment which allows them to experience without guilt or social stigma.

Sexuality, Williamson believes, can be a barrier to improving relationships, but at the same time is irrelevant to their ultimate success or failure, For example, a man or woman may have emotional feeling for a  co-workr, but because for social, moral and legal boundaries, each is unable to form closer relationships with the other. Once the sexual barrier is gone, in Sandstone's view, a more fulfilling relationship is possible,

"We believe in the acceptance of the physical as well the metnal signs of most man;s natre, " said Martin Zitter, 29, director and pulbic relationships man for Sandstone.

The freedom has a profound effect on marriages. But Sandstone devotees believe that a relationship can thrive by showing individuals who bring, & bring pleasure of both a social and physical nature. "If the key to a relationship is based on a neurotic impulse" Williamson commented, "If they've captured so, they live in fear, in a healthy relationship, this will not happen. They undestand the true nature of their contract.

With the traditional barrier of sexual fidelity no longer a factor, Sandstone residents claim their brand of relationships can create more meaningful human contacts.

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TOPANGA - Although it was not probably intended, a recent State Court ruling has opened the way for a unique community and life-style to continue its highly controversial experimentation with relationships between men and women.

On the surface, the decision of the State Court of Appeals seemed mild enough. The judges struck down a County Ordinance requiring the licensing and regulatio of "growth enters (nudist camps), calling the ordinance :vague and overbroad and in violation of the First Amendmennt to the Constitution which guarantees the right to assembly.

Significantly, the measue endangered tow Topanga Canyon centers: Elysium Fields and Sandstone Foundation.

Both had been threated with closure for operating without a county lixense.

The ordinance defined "growth centers" as any place where three or more persons, not all members of the same family, congegate for the purpose of exposing their bodies in the nude in the presenc eof others.

What neither the ordinance nor the court decision made explicit was the concern by county officials with the openly sexual naturie of the activities in at least one of these centers which, while kpet discrettely away from mass exosure, still flaunts conventional morality.

Certainly, the operators of Sandstone see the decision as a de facto victory for their admittedly unusual way of life which encourages relations beginning on a sexual lever with two and sometimes three or more persons.

But Sandstone, or more formally the Sandstone Foundation for Community Systems Research, Inc. is not a "sex club" or a wife-swapping fraternity, at least in the usual sense.

While there is a definite sexual basis for theor interpersonal relationships, and while they may cross the formal lines of marriage, its proprietors seetheir intermngled lives as research into a more realisitc approach to human relationships.

Sandstone combines an alternative lifestyle, a community, a private club, and a sociological research community, say ts owners. Its headquarters is at 21400 Saddle Peak Road, a clust of neatly kept buildings on a plush 15-qcre hilltop site in the Malibu hills with a magnificent unobstructed view of the ocean>

At first glance, it resembles any number of well-kept homes in the hills: a $500,000 estate complete with a two-try ranch style house, guest cottages, covered swimming pool, a large green lawn, one querter mile back from the road accessible only by driving down a pitted dirt road.

The resemblance ends, however, when a visitor spots a well-tanned man and woman cleaning out the circulating fountain in front of the main house Bothe are nude.

Relaxing inide, in a spacious wood-lined living room with thick beige carpets, are some of the Sandstone's 14 permanent residents, some clothed, some not.

The building reflects te foundation's free and easy life-style. As the administrative and play center for the club, whic lists some 500 members, the vuilding is carpeted throughout, with furniture on the ground floor, and with mats or waterbeds on the lower floors. All the doors are open. Men and women are sitting and talking, some touching in frank sensual way, yer there is no sense of licentiousness. On the contray, the atmosphere is relaxed and tension free.