ISBN-10: 0-8261--2380-5
Εditor: Bernard I. Murstein
Title: Exploring Intimate Life Styles
Language: English
Place of Publication: New York
Publisher: Springer Publishing Company
Year of Publication: 1978
Format: 152x235mm
Pages: xxviii+302
Jacket Design: Mina Greenstein
Binding: boards in duotone dust jacket
Pages: xv+312
Weight: 612gr.
Original Price: N/A
Entry Date: 2014031
Entry Date: 15th October 2014
The institution of marriage has been in evidence since the onset of recorded history, and, no doubt, long preceded it. Currently, however, marriage is under attack - accused of perpetuating inequity between the sexes, limiting the personal development of external relationships, and frustrating the realization of interpersonal freedom and growth. Though marriage is still preferred by a vast majority of people, it is evident that there is increasing discontent with the traditional style of marriage that assigns sex roles, erodes singular identity, and restricts opportunities for individual interaction.
Dr. Murstein and contributors examine the alternatives to that discontent: intimate life styles that further individual growth, allow for adequate socialization of children, and meet societal needs. Exploring Intimate Life Styles treats variants within marriage - marriage contracts, androgeny, open marriage, and communes, variants involving unmarried persons - swinging or comarital sex, group marriage and multilateral relations, singlehood, cohabitation, and homosexuality; and offers a forecast for the future.
Written by established authorities in the field and by individuals who have participated in the variant forms, the book examines the different life styles from theoretical and review perspectives as well as on the experential level, assessing the strengths and weaknesses of each form to estimate both their present day function and future viability.
Exploring Intimate Life Styles is unanimous on one central issue - traditional marriage complete with nonworking wife, no divorce, and sexual exclusivity is losing its ideological appeal. Murstein and contributors invite the reader - whether student, professional, or layman - to look ahead into the future to see what form it may take or what may be waiting to take its place.
Writers: John and Mimi Lobell
Title: John and Mimi
Subtitle: A Free Marriage
Language: English
Place of Publication: New York
Publisher: St. Martin's Press
Year of Publication: 1972
Format: 140x215mm
Pages: 159
Illustrations: 2 single colour pictures of the couple on front and back dust jacket
Binding: Boards in duotone dust jacket
Weight: 307gr.
Original Price: USD5.95
Entry No.: 2010029
Entry Date: 5th September 2013
BOOK DESCRIPTION
Today, in the midst of the sexual revolution, millions of people are robbing themselves of complete sexual fulfillment. Their greatest desire -often hidden even from themselves- is for variety: variety in sexual experience, in sexual partners, and in types of sexual acts. Most people never fulfill this desire, held back by fear, timidity and the conventions of monogamy. John and Mimi Lobell have achieved it.
Their books tells everything: their former sexual conventionality, what changed their living patterns, what their new life has meant to them. They speak in loving detail of their encounters with friends, together or separately. Often their new lovers reacted first in astonishment and disbelief, only to find themselves gaining similar fulfillment by broadening their sexual horizons, increasing their capacity for love. The effect of all this is joyful and liberating. John and Mimi, in showing how sexual openness can result in fuller and richer lives, have given the world a stirring and important book.
ISBN-13: 978-1-932420-71-5
Writer: Kaye Bellemeade
Title: Swinging for Beginners
Subtitle: An Introduction to the Lifestyle
Forward: Kaye Bellemeade
Edition: Revised Edition
Language: English
Place of Publication: Milton Keynes
Publisher: New Tradition Books
Year of Publication: 2013 (print-on-demand)
Format: 126x204mm (trimmed)
Pages: 195
Binding: paperback in duotone printed wrappers
Weight: 260gr.
Original Price: USD16.95 / CAD22.00 / GBP10.27
Entry No.: 2013032
Entry Date: 2nd October 2013
BOOK DESCRIPTION
Are you interested in couple swapping? Sex parties? Group sex? Threesomes? Anonymous sex? Girl/Girl? Orgies? Then Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle - the Revised Edition is a book you definitely need to read.
It's been said that the couple who plays together stays together and this sizzling how-to book tells everything you need to know to get started in this sexy lifestyle. This includes information on dating, what to wear, what to do at clubs and parties, single men, jealousy, threesomes, how to meet other swingers and how to deal with it all and much more.
In Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle - the Revised Edition, you'll not only find out the basics, but also read about steamy real-life experiences that will give you a real taste of what to expect once you get started.
So are you prepared to delve more deeply into the secret world of the swinging lifestyle? Do you think you're ready to join in on the fun? Are you ready to see just what the Swinging Lifestyle is all about? If so, this book can help you you get started.
C'mon. You know you're curious.
ISBN-10: 0-523-00181
Writer: Iris Brent
Title: Swinger's Diary
Language: English
Place of Publication: New York City
Publisher: Pinnacle Books
Year of Publication: 1973
Format: 105x178mm (trimmed)
Pages: 216 printed on newsprint
Binding: paperback in duotone printed wrappers
Weight: 119gr.
Original Price: USD1.25
Entry No.: 2014003
Entry Date:10th February 2014
BOOK DESCRIPTION
A true and intimate look at a couple who dared to expand their sexual activities beyond the normal bounds of a marriage bed...
"What we have learned about ourselves and about others from swinging. Why we believe that freedom for full sexual expression is vital to human growth."
Iris Brent in the epilogue of her little book.
ISBN-10: 0-06-066852-0
Writer: Herbert W. Richardson
Title: Nun, Witch, Playmate
Subtitle: The Americanization of Sex
Language: English
Edition: First Edition
Place of Publication: New York, Evanston, San Francisco, London
Publisher: Harper & Row, Publishers
Year of Publication: 1971
Format: 143x212mm
Pages: xii+147pp.
Illustrations: 1 black and white of the author on the back flap
Binding: boards in single colour dust jacket
Weight: 358gr.
Original Price: USD 4.95
Entry Date: 2014018
Entry Date: 3rd September 2014
This valuable discussion of how we are in and experience our sexual selves touches on:
* how war created patriarchy and aggressive sex
* whether witches cause impotence
* why only Americans engaged in petting
* what's wrong with seeking orgasm as the goal in sex
* how romantic marriage creates social revolution
* why heterosexuality is always bisexuality
* what is the function of virginity
Writer: Ashley Lister
Title: Swingers
Subtitle: True confessions from today's swinging scene
Language: English
Place of Publication: London
Publisher: Virgin Books
Year of Publication: 2006
Format: 130x195mm (trimmed)
Pages: 249
Binding: paperback in colour printed wrapers; images by Getty/Virgin Books
Weight: 248gr.
Original Price: GBP7.99 / USD12.95 / CAD17.95 RPR
Entry No: 2015011
Entry Date: 10th March 2015
BOOK DESCRIPTION
Swinging, swapping, dogging, threesomes, soft-swaps, group sex and full-blown orgies. Everybody has heard about them. Everyone knows someone who knows someone who was rumoured to... But who is really doing it? How? Where? Why? What's like? And what really happens?
Frank and Eve regularly frequent the dogging circuits where she accepts up to a dozen different men in a single night. Roger and Sonia spend Saturday evenings having sex in their lounge while their friends sit by and watch. Grace and Harry own a large estate and host bacchanal swinging parties for up to a hundred couples at a time/ Ken makes himself available as the other man for those partners who want to experience a MFM threesome. Artur sits in the room below his wife Betty and listens as she takes lover after lover after lover.
Ashley Lister, a freelance writer, author and reporter, has met countless singles, couples and triples involved in the UK's recreational sex scene. Meeting people who have turned their fantasy into reality, he uncovers today's swinging Britain and reveals the sexy, shocking and true secrets of what happens behind closed doors.
Judges Watch Films Depicting Them and Order a Private Performance Young Girls Defendants
Celly de Reydt, the Premiere, Her Husband and Photographers Also Accused
BERLIN, Jan. 10.-
Naked dancing went on trial in the Criminal Court today. The principal in the case is Celly de Rheydt¹, the pioneer in dancing of this type, and the codefendants are Celly's husband, Sewelch, a former First Lieutenant, who was originally her impresario and still acts as manager for his wife in her undraped dancing; Celly's ballet of five young girls, the youngest 14; the motion picture photographers who filmed the nude ballet and the “still” photographers who made picture postals of it, none of which would be permitted to pass through the American mails.
The case, which is a cause celebre for Berlin, opened in a fitting setting today. Five learned Judges were on the bench, with a battery of eight lawyers for, the defense entrenched in front of Celly and her dancing girls. The State's Attorney is supported by one lone, shocked witness so far –a certain Pastor Hoppe –and a flock of professors as experts in the morality of the art, including Professor Max von Schillins², one of the most distinguished living German composers, best known for his opera “Mona Lisa” and Director General of the Opera House. The general public was excluded, but reporters and representatives of children's welfare organizations were admitted.
The Presiding Judge first ordered a motion picture of the nude dances thrown on the screen which had been stretched in the courtroom, frequently stopping the reel for a closer examination, as well as to identify the defendants shown on the screen and to quiz them regarding exactly what articles of clothing, including beads, gauze streamers, &c., they had worn at each stage.
The questioning of the Court elicited the information that at first the dancers were relatively clad above the waist, but as the ballet went on their bodies were completely exposed. In the case of the last dance shown the Court's queries as to costume were superfluous, for Celly was flashed on the screen in the altogether.
On account of the heated atmosphere in the overcrowded courtroom the Court called it a day's work and decided to order a view, “in camera”, of the original live ballet production, with music, at a local theatre on Thursday.
What is alleged to be the most offensive dance is a pantomime in which Celly appears, first fully clad as a mediaeval nun, who suddenly goes mad before a crucifix, sheds her nun's clothing completely and proceeds to execute a dance symbolic of delirium. This dance was actually performed in public repeatedly in 1919, until the flood of protests, principally from Catholics, on the ground of profanation and sacrilege, caused Celly to withdraw it from her repertoire. |
American visitors who have since seen her modified “beauty dances” say they never saw anything like them before. Among these American art experts were pillars of the community, mostly with wives and families across the Atlantic.
(Source: Cyril Brown in The New York Times, January 11, 1922)
NOTES
¹ Celly de Rheydt (aka Anna Cäcilie Marie Funk, 1889-1969), German nude ballet dancer. She stood trial in 1922 for her nude appearances on stage (1919-21).
² Max von Schillings (1868-1933), German composer and conductor, best known for his opera Mona Lisa (1915), also for his anti-Semitism.
A teenager on his way to school stopped at a candy store to load up for the day. He had a soft drink, got a pack of cigarettes, four candy bars and three magazines, 35 cents each.
The cover of one magazine showed a snarling brute at a Nazi torture room hipping a nearly-naked red-haired girl. The second had the photo of a nude girl, most of her body obscured by a block of type. The third featured a story labeled “Phony Surgeons Who Stalk Our Operating Rooms.”
These are magazines which are called smut publications. The $1.05 spent by the boy may seem a pittance. But along with hundreds of thousands of other teenagers and adults, the dimes and nickels spent on such magazines, books, and other materials ranging from offensive to hard-core pornography make it a major industry.
It is estimated at $2 billion a year. This is more than was spent in 1962 at all the movie box offices ($82 million), at all professional, semi-professional and amateur baseball, football, hockey, basketball, tennis and other sports entertainment ($1.9 billion); or was collected by the makers of cigarettes, cigars, pipe and chewing tobacco ($1.1 billion). It is more than was taken in by the radio-television industry ($1 billion).
What sort of magazines are these? How are they produced? Who buys them?
One side says such material is smut. It argues that such magazines introduce teenager to a world of Lesbians, homosexuals, sadists, masochists and other deviates. The other side argues that such material acts like a safety valve. It is in this way that all sorts of sexual feelings are harmlessly dissipated.
By legal definition, these magazines are not pornographic. If they were, they could quickly be put out of business or driven underground.
Since they are not:
1. They can be purchased by anyone regardless of age, sex or mental condition.
2. All that is needed is the price, generally from 25 cents to 75 cents.
3. They can be found displayed on open racks in drugstores, supermarkets, terminals, newsstands.
4. They are sold in practically every town and city in America.
There are many general-interest, high-fashion, digest-size, adventure, nudist, art, physical culture and entertainment publications which contain photographs or drawings of nudes. Scarcely an eyebrow is raised.
“If a news magazine or a fashion magazine publishes a nude figure within context of a specific event or theme, we certainly are not contending this is a move toward smut,” says a district attorney who has prosecuted dozens of pornography and obscenity cases.
Charles H. Keating Jr., Cincinatti attorney who is co-chairman of Citizens for Decent Literature (CDL), says: “It may seem silly to say you can tell which are objectionable just by looking at them, but it is true. I don't want to sound like a witch hunter or professional bluenose, but these magazines and paperbacks have a quality about them that sets them aside. There are perhaps 80 or 90 general distribution magazines which introduce the high schooler to a world of Lesbians, homosexuals, sadists, masochists and other deviates.”
The CDL is a national organization whose sponsors include prominent clergymen, political leaders and government officials.
There are four major categories of magazines in question.
Slicks - There are about 40 titles, most of them trying to cash in on the success of Playboy, considered a man's magazine and not on the CDL smut list. The slicks are printed on glossy paper, use color, tend editorially and pictorially to appear high-toned. The major feature is the photo essay showing an attractive, young, shapely girl. She is nude.
Men's Adventure - These usually have lurid action-type covers with sensational, eye-catching titles. There are at least 25 different magazines. The art and text tend toward depicting or describing physical brutality, perversion of all sorts, generally concealed in a right-versus-evil struggle.
Body-Builders - These purport to be devoted to developing bulging biceps. Many are thinly-veiled publications aimed at homosexuals.
Nudist - This s used to be the province of the nudist groups. Sun worshippers depicted generally had the sexual appeal of a herd of rhinos wallowing at the mud hole. Now the air brush has been put away, and young, attractive nudists, mostly models, are shown with clear and uncluttered detail.
(Source: The Nudist Newsletter #148/1964;
article reprinted from The Paducah Sun-Democrat)







